Thursday, September 1, 2011

Who wants to be a seminary teacher?

Look at my handsome hubby posing in front of the Seminary building at Logan High.  There he is, standing  all awkward and hoping that no students walk by while his wife documents this milestone.  Why am I making him pose so I can take his picture in front of this lovely building?  Well, because he is student teaching seminary here!  Yay!

Kole has wanted to be a seminary teacher for some time now but it wasn't until this last spring that we got the good news that he would have the opportunity to try it out.  We are so happy!!!  Busy busy busy, but happy!

Now, for anyone who doesn't know about Seminary, it is a LDS religious education class that high school students can take.  Seminary is attended by normal kids and taught by normal people who are members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  Although the term in other Christian denominations often refers to schooling which prepares and enables someone to hold a leadership position in a church, LDS seminary is more general gospel education to strengthen and prepare teenagers for the many various Church and life positions they will have throughout their lives.  Its purpose is "to help them understand and rely on the teachings and Atonement of Jesus Christ, qualify for the blessings of the temple and prepare themselves, their families and others for eternal life with their Father in Heaven.  In Seminary, kids learn the doctrines and principles as found in the scriptures and words of the prophets.  They are taught in a way that leads to understanding and edification.  Teachers help kids fulfill their role in the learning process and prepare them to teach the gospel to others."  That all sounds pretty fancy but think of it as an everyday spiritual boost to help kids be edified, uplifted and inspired to live the gospel. 

Each year the curriculum is focused on one of the standard works of scripture: the Old Testament of the Bible, the New Testament of the Bible, The Book of Mormon, and the Doctrine & Covenants.  Since there are four years of high school, kids should be able to cover each work of scripture before they graduate.  This year they are all going over the Old Testament.

 Living in Utah with a highly Mormon population means that most highschools have an LDS Seminary building right near campus so kids can take a seminary class during a free period in their school day and then they don't have to travel. In other parts of the country and world, LDS kids can take seminary too but they often have to attend seminary in the early morning before school since most schools don't incorporate free periods to allow seminary to be part of the regular school day.  They also don't usually have seminary buildings near campus so most kids attend seminary in a home or Church buliding. 

 Outside of Utah and other places with compact LDS populations, seminary is taught mostly by unpaid volunteers. But in Utah and other areas with highly LDS populations, seminary is a paid position because it is a full-time job.  There are enough LDS students to fill classes so that seminary teachers can teach class all day long just as a normal school teacher would.  Unlike typical callings in the Church that are unpaid and can be filled by whomever the Lord says to call, being hired as a seminary teacher is completely seperate from other Church service.  Being a seminary teacher is a career whereas other Church callings wouldn't be considered a career.  Full-time seminary teachers work for the Church and additionally they serve voluntarily in other Church callings during their free time just like other Church members.  You don't have to hold any specific calling or position in the Church to become a seminary teacher nor does becoming a seminary teacher directly impact any future callings someone will have.  It doesn't put you on the fast track to becoming a prophet or apostle.  But it does keep your focus centered around Jesus Christ and that is helpful no matter what calling you have.  People become seminary teachers because that's what they want to do with their lives.  They love the gospel and they love the kids and they want to make a difference for good in their lives.  In all this, the Lord is the one who ultimately decides who should be trusted to teach His children  in such a special and ongoing way.
 
To be hired on full-time you can't just walk off the street and fill out an application or hand in a resume to become a seminary teacher.  When you work for the Lord and for His Church, it works a little differently.  You have to meet certain requirements to show you are prepared and serious about it.  First you have to attend and graduate from college to even be considered.  You also have to graduate from Institute (which is like Seminary classes but for college students but with a lot more depth and breadth).  You have to know, understand, and believe the gospel before you can be ready to teach it to the youth of the Church.  You then have to take special institute classes that are specifically geared to help people prepare to teach seminary.  You must also meet certain standards of conduct (past and present) and strength of testimony.  From there you are given an opportunity to teach real high school students in a real seminary class for a ten day trial.  During those ten days, people who are over the seminary teacher program of the Church evaluate you.  If the Lord tells them that you have potential and He wants you to do further teaching, then they select you to student teach for a whole school year.  That is the step Kole is in now.  He gets to teach this whole school year.  People will continue to evaluate him throughout this school year.  If at the end of the year, the Lord tells these people that he should become a Seminary teacher, then that is what happens.  On the other hand, if the Lord says "no" then that's the end of it.  We know it is a longshot.  Of the 1000 people that start the program to become a seminary teacher, less than 5% will be hired on as full-time seminary teachers each year.  But we are hopeful that this is the direction the Lord wants our lives to go it.
 
But we know it is going to be a super busy year (and cross your fingers... life).  Kole's day starts around 5:30 in the morning so he can be ready in time to start teaching at 6:40.  He teaches three classes each day.  He then goes to his normal job at American Family Insurance until 5:30 (which is really great that they are so flexible with this whole thing) and then some days he does landscaping work for his mom's office on top of that.  Then he comes home and has to prepare lessons for class the next day and find time to spend with the family.  And then the cycle repeats day after day.  Of course if he got hired on full-time he would be able to use parts of his work day to prepare lessons and he wouldn't have to work 3 jobs.  We know that we are just going to have to buckle down this year and make it work.  It is going to be a hard year with lots of work and a lot less sleep than we would like but we can't help but think it will all be worth it.  Who would think that all this craziness would make us so happy?

And so it begins... school that is.

I can't believe I have a kid in school.  Real school, not just pre-school.  Tuesday was Eve's first day of Kindergarten.  Sob, sniff, sob, etc.  Actually, we were both totally excited and totally ready.  She is almost 6 now and had to watch and wait while all her little friends started school last year.  She has been ever so patient but finally it is her turn!
We chose to send her to the local elementary school about 5 blocks away.  I am so happy we chose Adams School!  They have great teachers and I love that Eve will get to know more kids in the area.  I want my kids to be close and I support public education.  Strangely I also feel a lot more part of the community already.  We feel really blessed to be involved with Adam's School.  We feel like this is exactly where we are supposed to be right now.

Now, please don't be offended (I tend to be very blunt, if you've never noticed) but I feel like where kids go to elementary school is so competitive and I hate that it is one more thing for parents to become cliquey and critical about.  There are lots of elementary schools in the area to choose from but I hate when people look at me like I’m a bad mom for sending my kids to, oh no, a local public school.  It bothers me when people imply that their child is getting a better education elsewhere and therefore their child is going to grow up to be smarter, richer and a better person because they're not sending them to a public school.  Blah blah.  And don't even get me started on home schooling.  I live in Cache Valley where our public schools are safe and kids can get a good education.  The teachers work hard and do their best to help each of their students succeed.  I honestly don’t care if my 6 year old doesn’t have to memorize the Declaration of Independence as long as she is progressing as a kid should.  I want my kids to be mentally stretched but not broken.  I want my kids to get to know and become friends with people that don't always have the same ideas, opinions, beliefs and background they do.  I'm thankful to have the opportunity to allow my kids an environment where they can learn about such things and then return home to discuss such things with our guidance.  I want to give my kids the best start in loving education and lifelong learning without giving them a chip on their shoulder. 
I hear too many other parents almost brag about all the high pressure stuff going on in their child's kindergarten class at other schools and I think, since when did that become a good thing?  Kindergarten is not college. Kids have enough stress in life, the last thing I want is to purposely put my kids under more stress and pressure to outperform other little kids.  There is so much more to education than the academic aspect.  Children learn through playing, experimenting and exploring.  I feel like many other types of schools don't put enough emphasis on that.  They need that to be well-rounded and adaptable in life.  Going to a school where the social aspect with be nurtured in balance with the rest of the educational experience is a priority for me.  Kids need all the positive social help they can get now days.

I'm thankful we live in America where we have so many different choices for quality education- and often our choices don't have to cost an arm and a leg.  If others feel their child would benefit from a different school or another type of school, good for them.  But should I really need to apologize or defend actions for wanting to give my kids a traditional education. I think not.

 I suppose I could write an essay on my opinions but instead of boring you all, I'll hop off my soapbox now.







So far, so good.  Eve loves her teacher- Mrs. Garrido.  Eve calls her Mrs. Burrito. Ha.  She loves her class and her new friends.  She's meeting so many that she can't even remember their names.  When she passes by them she just calls out "hi friend."  Cute.  I love that she loves school.  Now if only we could get her to love homework too. One step at a time.

It's going to be a fabulous year!

Wednesday, August 17, 2011

BBs and Bug Bites

We celebrated Damion's birthday by having some cake and ice cream, spending a little quality family time together and then the boys got a little bored and decided that they needed to really celebrate so this is what they did next...

Yes, that is Kole.  Of course I'm documenting his amazing choices for our posterity to look back on and learn from.  I guess these little BBs won't kill you or put a hole in your buttocks but still... why?

And then there is Damion, the birthday boy.  He's the oldest of the brothers.  I'm not sure if that makes the situation better or worse.  Some people get wiser with age and others... well, maybe next year.

Yes, Deb and Dave stood by and mocked and laughed (and didn't stop anything) while all their boys shot each other with BBs.  I'm passing these genes down to my children.  Sigh.

Eve practicing her red neck skills.  What you can't tell is she's aiming at Jack.  Just kidding!!!  My mom would have a heart attack.  I don't promote child abuse.  Brother-in-law abuse is a whole other story.

"I'll let you shoot me if I can shoot you first."  I guess that seems fair.  Not bright but still fair.

From left to right: Sam, Keaton, Grayson, Kole (with the oh so manly BB gun) and Damion.  Did I mention they're all single- except for the really cute one with the gun.  Right now some of you out there are thinking "Line me up!  Those are the brains I want to pass down to my children!"  Yes ladies, if that is what you are thinking, I'm sure we can work something out.  You'll just need to fill out an application and attach a current color photo.  They're kind of picky so don't call them, they'll call you.


Maybe he is so grumpy because he wanted to wear a thick long sleeved shirt in the middle of August.  Really kid?  Do you like heat stroke?


Can you see all those mosquito bites? They are a week old in this picture and they still look like he got struck with a plague. His whole face was covered with them after he had a sleepover under the stars at Grandma Wendy's house. I was embarrassed to take him out in public for days. It looked like he had early onset acne. I'm hoping we didn't get a sneak peek into his teenage years.








Cache County Fair 2011

August in Cache Valley means hot summer days, the final count down to school, last ditch efforts to squeeze the remaining bits of fun out of the season and of course Fair time!  Our Fair screams country living at its best and it makes you remember that this happy little valley is still full of farm country and cowboys.   I always think of the Cache County Fair as the last hurrah of valley events before the lazy days of summer fade away into the hustle and bustle of fall.  The Cache County Fair is not the biggest or best fair I've ever been to in my life but you can't beat the local fair when it comes to running into old friends, indulging in that craving for oh-so-bad-for-you but you-just-have-to-have-it fair fare, and enjoying the constant ambiance of nostalgia. 

On Friday evening my mom and I packed up the three kids and headed to the fair grounds. Kole actually got to go to the fair too- but he didn't get to have any fun. He was stuck slaving away in the American Family Insurance booth. Poor guy all stuck in a little cage like one of those fair animals. So we stopped by to point and laugh at his misery and then ditched him for some real animals. 

 The kids loved all the stinky animals. I'm not sure how many of these cute animals we saw will soon be on someone's table but I try not to think about it. 

 
Can you tell that sheep behind Jack was trying to ruin our picture? 

Sheep in turtlenecks... because obviously it is cold in the middle of August if you're missing your wool sweater.  Ha ha.

Eve kept saying "I'm really good with cows... goats... chickens (whatever animal happened to be within reach at the time) huh mom?" ha. Yes honey, animals flock to you like the Disney princess you are.

I think Eve would have bought a goat if I hadn't stopped her mid-sale.


Imitation is the highest form of flattery.

And of course the cuttest animal of them all.




Just ignore the random kid hanging out in the background of our picture.

Jack's angry face- this is what happens when Eve makes him switch places.

Grandma Wendy can't resist those kissable baby feet...

...and neither can big sister Eve.

She can't help posing lately.  At least her love for the camera is reciprocated.



Some people see a blurry photo- I prefer to see photo effects.

We found the pony rides to be a better deal than the other kiddie rides... and the money went to a better cause that carnies.

Riding off into the sunset at the end of our fun filled evening.

Friday, August 5, 2011

Sweatin' like daddy

Kole's been doing the "Insanity" workout program and since Jack wants to be big and manly like his daddy he's been doing it too.  I'm a sucker for his goofy cuteness so I just had to take some pictures to embarrass him with as a teenager. 







Feel the burn baby boy!

Thursday, August 4, 2011

Grandma Camp 2011

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For 4 glorious days and 4 peaceful nights Eve and Jack went on their summer vacation to "GRANDMA CAMP 2011." Since Porter was not the minimum age requirement of 3 years old (Grandma, we need to negotiate this in the future), I got a week of bonding time with him- which I absolutely LOVED!... and some much needed time to catch up on projects, house cleaning and rest! While I was thus in my week long getaway from real life, Kole's mom opted to make her life more stressful by inviting the hurricane force of little kids to invade her house for a week. I know, I know... what was she thinking? And since her personal horde of grandkids is not growing quite as quickly as she hoped ('cus I can only do so much on my own here), she decided to be super ambitious and invite a few "adopted grandkids" too. We all say, "Thanks Deb! You rock!" Eve and Jack had a blast and everyone survived (including the innocent bystanders like Grandpa Dave and Kole's stay-at-home brothers) so I think we can consider it a success and hopefully a YEARLY (huh huh?) tradition. Deb was good enough to take some pictures of the fun and chaos. I'm wondering just how many bonks, bruises and bloody body parts she had to edit out of these pictures before she gave them to me. Obviously I was not there (I'm sure I was lounging somewhere quiet and tidy at the time instead. Can you feel your jealousy bubbling up right about now?) so my lack of first hand knowledge does not allow me to comment on the pictures. But I'm sure you'll get the gist.








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I'm sure we're all looking forward to next year.